No one can avoid love, and that's wonderful. Don't confuse love and falling in love. After assessing the situation, try to figure out whether this mature and serious feeling of love has really come to you, or whether it is a banal love, easy and relaxed. How do you distinguish one from the other? What should you do if you do fall in love?
Imagine that something serious is happening to the object of your feeling (an illness that crippled it, for example). What are your actions in this case? Would you like to see the external similarity of your future children and the object of your feelings? She answered one of the questions positively - 100% in love. With two "yes" - LOVE.
Your behavior should not be associated with panic about your crush. It's not a fact that love will be unrequited. Think over the strategy and tactics of your further actions and go to war for your future happiness and your beloved heart, from which you expect reciprocity.
Next, start collecting information about this guy. If it turns out that he's not alone, don't despair. Connect reliable girlfriends. The search for any information should not be explicit or attention-grabbing.
Try to clarify how he feels about you or his girlfriend. A couple of helpers will help you here: your feminine intuition and a reliable friend. Pay attention to every little thing, every detail in his behavior during your meetings (even if it's random) and ask your friend to observe from the side. If these observations indicate his interest in you, then signal in response that you are not against his more decisive actions in terms of your acquaintance. If he just doesn't notice you, it's time to change tactics.
It's worth arranging a meeting with a guy, as if by chance, and be sure that the conversation will take place. Your girlish charm should work here. Let each of your charms work: a light casual touch to his hand, a languid look from under your eyelashes, your light touches to the seductive parts of your body (wrist, neck, etc.), licking your lips. Each of these "signs" will attract his attention, arousing interest. At each of your next meetings, keep playing games, turn on your charming smile, look, your charm and attractiveness.
As soon as you're sure he's starting to show interest in you, stop. A temporary respite by avoiding your meetings, avoiding phone conversations, and even more so meetings. Let him suffer in fear of being abandoned by you. But this tactic should be in moderation. A little is enough. Then – again, a gentle and passionate look from your side, which will be very eloquent.
Now wait for his confession and reciprocate, just be careful so that he doesn't guess that this is "your handiwork." And don't rush to say yes right away. Play on the "utter surprise" of his confession.
And be happy. After all, falling in love with a guy doesn't mean reciprocating his feelings. CSGORUN